By ScubaBanker (Experienced BonaireTalker - Post #639) on Saturday, August 4, 2007 - 6:27 pm: |
Starting on Wed night we got to star in CSI Bonaire.
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By Gail T. (Extraordinary BonaireTalker - Post #2262) on Saturday, August 4, 2007 - 6:59 pm: |
Hugs to you and Autumn. I'm so sorry you went through this, but I admire both your and Kathy's attitudes and perseverence.
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By Mona Cosse (New BonaireTalk Poster - Post #3) on Saturday, August 4, 2007 - 7:44 pm: |
I am so sorry for your loss. But you have the right attitude that you won't let this incident ruin your relationship with the island and the people.
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By Gail T. (Extraordinary BonaireTalker - Post #2263) on Saturday, August 4, 2007 - 7:55 pm: |
Mona, We have experienced petty incidents several times on Bonaire, which are more annoying than damaging, but since I personally know both Kathy and Christine, this incident just saddens me more deeply. I have gone to Bonaire 8 years in a row, and will go again next year. I read about the portable motion detectors in one post, trip insurance in another..... and just believe in being prepared. There is no other place as unique as this island for me. It's just magical and creates such a peace in my soul when I'm there. I will go back, but I will go back aware of what can happen, and protect myself as best as I can.
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By Marilyn M. (Experienced BonaireTalker - Post #197) on Saturday, August 4, 2007 - 8:00 pm: |
My thoughts and hugs to you. I admire your attitude and your willingness to follow through on those things you had control over. I'm just really sorry it happened to you guys. Take care and again, my thoughts are with you.
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By ScubaBanker (Experienced BonaireTalker - Post #641) on Saturday, August 4, 2007 - 9:23 pm: |
Mona,
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By r. scott nielsen (BonaireTalker - Post #53) on Saturday, August 4, 2007 - 10:09 pm: |
wow, this is so sad. Why does Bonaire put up with this? If they are criminals, then deport them. In coz, you won't find any of this, they won't put up with it...
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By Mona Cosse (New BonaireTalk Poster - Post #4) on Saturday, August 4, 2007 - 11:32 pm: |
Unfortunately, crime may stop me from coming to Bonaire. Regarding advice to bring portable motion detectors to place around my rental house. The reason to go on vacation is to relax and get away from everyday life stresses i.e. crime, commuting in traffic, etc. One must have psychological relaxation (sense of peace of mind) also in addition to physical relaxation.
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By Gail T. (Extraordinary BonaireTalker - Post #2266) on Saturday, August 4, 2007 - 11:37 pm: |
Christine - You have broached a very important scenario. So many of us state ahead of time where we are staying, often even the room number, in the 'who's on island in XXX' list. We post what type of camera set up we're bringing, whether or not we'll have the lap top, mention our universal phones, etc. We're trusting that it's just "us" reading this. I stopped putting my name on the 'who's on island in July' list a couple of years ago when our Inn keeper brought this to my attention. Sadly, what is a wonderful contact tool for us, can also be a shopping list for crooks....... We never know who else is reading what we post. No solutions..... Just food for thought......
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By Ron Gould (Extraordinary BonaireTalker - Post #1001) on Sunday, August 5, 2007 - 8:46 am: |
Don't stay anyplace that doesn't have a safe on property! Use the safe if they have one! Leave your jewlery at home! We have a Mini Alarm(motion detector)and we use it. Use common sense, lock your doors, leave nothing of value in plain sight.
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By Gail T. (Extraordinary BonaireTalker - Post #2268) on Sunday, August 5, 2007 - 9:20 am: |
Kathy stated that they removed the safe from the wall, thus they lost their passports, money, important papers, etc.
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By Susan (Extraordinary BonaireTalker - Post #1935) on Sunday, August 5, 2007 - 9:40 am: |
Mona,
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By r. scott nielsen (BonaireTalker - Post #54) on Sunday, August 5, 2007 - 9:49 am: |
Hello, what susan says is true. I mean think about the crime in the virgin islands, it's awful...puerto rico all has bars on the windows and doors. It's not just bonaire, but you would think on a small island, they could do more about this. Stricter rules, etc. However this won't effect me from coming back. I think however we would be smarter not to say where we are staying, until you come home and post your trip report. So sorry that this happened but lets hope they catch those guys so that it does not happen again. scott
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By Kathy H (Supreme BonaireTalker - Post #8919) on Sunday, August 5, 2007 - 10:04 am: |
Christine, I'm still too upset to do a trip report. Larry is still super stressed and says he'll never go back. I love Bonaire. It's just all been very traumatic and I'm not over it. Like PegiSue said about her and George not even talking on the way back...Larry and I aren't talking very well, either. He had a bad feeling about this trip (so my husband is psychic???) and I pushed for Bonaire this time.
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By Susan (Extraordinary BonaireTalker - Post #1936) on Sunday, August 5, 2007 - 10:25 am: |
Kathy,
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By ScubaBanker (Experienced BonaireTalker - Post #642) on Sunday, August 5, 2007 - 10:39 am: |
Just so you know we were not in a private home. We had the small things that could fit in the safe the small electronic items, cash wallets etc.The safe was drilled in a concrete wall which they jackhammered out of wall or sledge hammered and even put a pillow on the floor of the closed that the safe was in so would not make noise when it dropped or trying to cushion the safes fall so that nothing would get broken that was inside.
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By Susan (Extraordinary BonaireTalker - Post #1937) on Sunday, August 5, 2007 - 10:57 am: |
Christine,
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By Susan (Extraordinary BonaireTalker - Post #1938) on Sunday, August 5, 2007 - 11:01 am: |
And I understand completely how you felt about that keychain. When I was mugged, the thing that really made me cry: a really nice set of tweezers, they looked like scissors but had tweezer ends, that I'd just gotten before the trip.
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By Lyn & Den (New BonaireTalk Poster - Post #5) on Sunday, August 5, 2007 - 11:10 am: |
We are so sorry to hear of your upset, disappointment,and loss.
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By Marilyn M. (Experienced BonaireTalker - Post #198) on Sunday, August 5, 2007 - 11:37 am: |
Kathy, you guys obviously did all anyone can do to have a safe vacation. It's not so much the economic loss that something like this leaves behind, it's the emotional chaos, loss of inner peace and sense of security that's the hardest to deal with. After joining me in Aruba for vacation for the last 15 years, my nephew and his wife are joining me in a vacation in Bonaire this year. With all it's problems, we have never had a problem with theft in Aruba. Yes, I know we've been lucky, but I don't have the same sense of security when going to Bonaire. It's a shame that a few can do so much damage to so many. Preach away. You have a lot to say, and much to share. You're in my prayers, all of you.
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By ScubaBanker (Experienced BonaireTalker - Post #643) on Sunday, August 5, 2007 - 11:51 am: |
Lyn & Den,
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By Gail T. (Extraordinary BonaireTalker - Post #2271) on Sunday, August 5, 2007 - 12:16 pm: |
Just got back from church - I lifted up Christine, Autumn, Kathy, Larry, Cynde, and PegiSue in prayer. Everyone else doin' OK?
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By PegiSue (Extraordinary BonaireTalker - Post #1006) on Sunday, August 5, 2007 - 12:36 pm: |
I must say, Kathy & Christine's attitude toward this WILL keep some of us going back. And the fact that there are so many good people on the island. It is a beautiful, peaceful place. I was never worried. I realize now, after reading trip reports and getting emails from people, I should have never posted where and when we would be on the island. And that we should have been MORE careful. Luckily we did not have any kind of schedule. No one knew when we would be at the house, sometimes we would only be gone a few minutes. When we left the house we would go down the road a ways, then turn around and drive by real slow, checking. EVERY TIME! You have to be careful, as with anywhere...
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By Bill and Donna Goodwin (Experienced BonaireTalker - Post #309) on Sunday, August 5, 2007 - 2:23 pm: |
ScubaBanker (aka bankerchick) - we love you and your positive attitude, and we're sorry for the loss and trouble you experienced at the hands of your druggy perp(s). Perhaps we'll see you on-island one day.
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By Kini "no trip in sight either" (Extraordinary BonaireTalker - Post #2487) on Sunday, August 5, 2007 - 7:59 pm: |
Christine, I'm so sorry this has happened to you, but I'm with Bill and Donna, you have the right attitude which can be difficult in a situation like this. Glad you haven't given up on Bonaire
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By La Reina de la Salsa (Supreme BonaireTalker - Post #2611) on Sunday, August 5, 2007 - 10:39 pm: |
I am so sorry this had to happen to you guys. Many hugs
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By ScubaBanker (Experienced BonaireTalker - Post #644) on Monday, August 6, 2007 - 7:19 am: |
I thank everyone for their kind words of support. Yesterday Paul got me out of the house and we went to go see the movie without reservation it was a very good movie. I was up till 3:30 cleaning because I could not sleep but I am sure that this will pass.
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By Judy Trafford (Supreme BonaireTalker - Post #3576) on Monday, August 6, 2007 - 8:36 am: |
I am so very sorry this happened to you. I hope they catch the people who did this. I truly hope the government will step-up and take care of this situation - it is very sad.
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By Koma a.k.a. Tom C. (Supreme BonaireTalker - Post #4924) on Monday, August 6, 2007 - 9:44 am: |
Christine, I hope restful sleep returns to you soon. Thanks for your humorous spin on a tragic event.
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By Alex Verstegen (Experienced BonaireTalker - Post #289) on Monday, August 6, 2007 - 11:14 am: |
ScubaBanker, I'm very sorry for what you went through, and I hope the perps get caught. As a Dutchman, I find your idea of "boycotting" my country a bit silly though. Just think of all the countries in the world you should be boycotting, as in most (all?) other countries crimes are committed against Americans, as they are against all nationalities. I think if I would have even hinted at boycotting the U.S.A. (let's say for all the Dutch tourist that get robbed while holidaying in the States) in a thread, I would have been attacked and accused of America-bashing.
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By Neil Godbee (BonaireTalker - Post #23) on Monday, August 6, 2007 - 11:59 am: |
Alex,
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By Vince DePietro (Bellevue Condos ) (Extraordinary BonaireTalker - Post #1020) on Monday, August 6, 2007 - 1:35 pm: |
SB..So sorry for your bad experiences. I am amazed that these robbers now have the tenacity to actually jack hammer or rip a safe from the wall to get at it's contents!
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By Ann Phelan - www.bonairecaribbean.com (Supreme BonaireTalker - Post #2826) on Monday, August 6, 2007 - 10:48 pm: |
R. Scott..locals / residents are being robbed/victimized too..it has been very bad the past two weeks.
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By ScubaBanker (Experienced BonaireTalker - Post #650) on Monday, August 6, 2007 - 11:20 pm: |
Thank you for your kind words but I have to tell you something that today after reading a email someone sent me. Wish I went with them instead of Kathy because lmbo. I figured out it just must be me but I seem to cause the people who go on vacation with me to have such excitement and could of spared Kathy and Larry csi BOnaire. Well according to this person email because I chose to go to bonaire I was missing out on so many oppurtunitys like going to the Ritz for tea, a possible meeting with Tony Blair. Gee could you of imagined with my luck of excitement on bonaire what I could of done to London instead.
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By mtnest (Experienced BonaireTalker - Post #151) on Saturday, August 11, 2007 - 2:00 pm: |
Alex. Alex, Alex!!
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By David Johnson (Experienced BonaireTalker - Post #344) on Sunday, August 12, 2007 - 1:56 am: |
Alex:
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By Alex (Experienced BonaireTalker - Post #293) on Wednesday, August 15, 2007 - 4:07 am: |
mtnest, of course I want to give victims the chance to vent. I also perfectly understand their frustrations and the feeling of invasion, having been the victim of crimes of various proportions in different countries. However, I never even thought about appealing to others to boycott another country for it, and it has never deterred me from going back there. Scubabanker did not suggest to boycott Bonaire, which I would be perfectly able to understand, but to boycott Holland to put pressure on my country's government - silly.
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By Alex (Experienced BonaireTalker - Post #294) on Wednesday, August 15, 2007 - 5:55 am: |
Let me explain this: apart from the fact that it's a silly idea to boycott a whole modern country because of some burglaries in some little town, it's also not based on solid facts. Even if the Dutch government would wish to react to such a boycott (and which self-respecting modern country would?), it couldn't do so, simply because The Netherlands have no say in anything (yet), except maybe in what to spend aid money on. Yes, Bonaire is part of the Dutch Kingdom, but the Dutch Antilles have their own laws and sovereignty. Those are my reasons for calling it a silly idea. And I repeat, if I would have called for a boycott of the US for similar reasons, you guys would have butchered me on this board, and rightly so.
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By mtnest (Experienced BonaireTalker - Post #154) on Wednesday, August 15, 2007 - 8:13 am: |
Alex
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By Alex (Experienced BonaireTalker - Post #295) on Wednesday, August 15, 2007 - 11:21 am: |
mtnest, I'm NOT denying the severe effects of being a victim - I know far to well what it is to be one. What I AM doing is contributing to this discussion, which you say you value so much. I'm just giving my reaction here to the proposed "solution", with proper arguments. And as a Dutch citizen I have every right to feel offended at anyone unjustly attacking my country for an issue for which it is not responsible. I find it strange that you find my use of the silly word "silly" more offensive than that.
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By Jim McPeak (Experienced BonaireTalker - Post #928) on Wednesday, August 15, 2007 - 12:08 pm: |
Alex and mtnest, good dialogue. I so hear what both of you are saying. We, as Americans, live with crime everyday, especially if you are from Philadelphia as I am. LOL I think what happens for a lot of Americans is this. When you travel to somewhere like Bonaire, or any other "exotic" place, you don't expect to be a victim of hideous crimes like what happened above to Kathy and others. Of course, the other part of the equation is holiday or vacation. This is "supposed" to be a time of great peace and tranquility for the soul. When that is shattered, I believe it to be more traumatic due to the "supposed" factor. One year, while on vacation, we were robbed at home. Checks, credit cards, TV's, videos, jewelry, etc, etc, were all lost. The worst part of the heist was the checks. We went through a year and a half of virtual hell because of these missing checks and our credit damaged until it could get repaired by bank statements along with police reports. It was a horrible time, especially my answering machine everyday with irate store owners demanding payment. (Yeah, the perp got a phony license with my name and his picture)
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By mtnest (Experienced BonaireTalker - Post #157) on Thursday, August 16, 2007 - 8:34 am: |
Again, and for the last time Alex, I think that the term "silly" is inappropriate and perhaps our (you and me) vernacular in terms of this word is substantially different. No one is attacking your country, albeit you feel that they do. I personally enjoyed my visit to the Netherlands. I will stop beating this dead horse here and suggest that we (you and me) lighten up and let these folks vent. Hope this works for you!!!
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By mtnest (Experienced BonaireTalker - Post #158) on Thursday, August 16, 2007 - 8:38 am: |
Again, and for the last time Alex, I think that the term "silly" is inappropriate and perhaps our (you and me) vernacular in terms of this word is substantially different. No one is attacking your country, albeit you feel that they do. I personally enjoyed my visit to the Netherlands. I will stop beating this dead horse here and suggest that we (you and me) lighten up and let these folks vent. Hope this works for you!!!
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